Unthenalsexuality describes people who are completely unsure of what their sexual orientation is. They might have “figured out” their other types of attraction (romantic, sensual, etc.) but due to their relationship trauma in the past, they are completely unsure of their sexuality. They might have a “basic” understanding (for example: “I know I am not straight”) but beyond that, they feel completely “lost” in regards to their sexual orientation. If a person asks them to define sexual attraction, they might just shrug their shoulders, not knowing how to apply the idea of “sexual attraction” to themselves (or know how to define it, period).[1][2]