Asexual Spectrum

I'm bi, but I don't want to have a sexual relationship with anyone, it seems uncomfortable and I'm not interested, or better, I hate it and feel me guilty and disgusted just thinking about it, at most I would do to please my (girl/boy)friend.

My sexual attraction is complicated, I still have this attraction, but sometimes I feel disgusted by it, but it is in a short period of time, maybe it's something normal. I prefer demonstrate it with sensual relationships (not sexual).

I'm still in doubt if I'm Demi, orchidsexual or pseudo sexual, because these are the labels that come closest to what I feel (I feel me better with the pseudo sexual label).

I hope I'm not faking this, because I've felt this discomfort for a long time, I feel me less asexual or invalid because I'm not totally repulsive about it.

I have discovered the Divisexual identity (which is described as ‘individuals are one who feels sexually attracted to someone after a long period of knowing them, but due to their feelings, they convince themselves it is not true, and back out of it.’). Is there a similar identity where someone feels attracted to someone after a long period of knowing them, but they do NOT (feel like they have to) back out? Please help, thank you.

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For reference, I identify as bisexual & Demiromantic.

I know I’m in the asexual spectrum, because I don’t exactly know what intimate attraction feels like. The thing is, however, I still feel like I feel attraction towards certain people. What I mean is that I find them attractive, but if I had the chance, I wouldn’t date them unless I knew them very well (the Demiromantic talking).

The problem is that I generally don’t find the people I see in public/everyday attractive

Am I selective of who I like, allosexual, or is there a term that fits how I’m feeling?

Hi, so.. I’m kinda uncomfortable talking about this. But I do need help. I do not wish to have sexual like.. well.. whatever. And usually I don’t think about it. But because of the household I was raised in, I occasionally have sexual thoughts. Does anyone know what this is? I know that there is a term for this but idk what it’s called.

Hello everyone! I would like to start this post off by saying that I currently identify as oriented aroace because I think it fits me (for now, at least). However, I've noticed some things about myself when it comes to my sexuality and romantic orientation. I just wanted to know if I should use the term oriented aroace or if there's another term out there that sounds like what I describe. Here are the bullet points:

Romantic Orientation bulletpoints:

• I have always felt guilty for rejecting someone/not having a crush so I would pretend to like someone/like them back

• I used to have a crush on a girl when I was 10, however I lost romantic attraction. When I was 11, I had a crush on a person (at the time they were cis but I don't feel comfortable misgendering them in pass tense), but I also lost romantic attraction for them.

• I like the idea of being in a romantic relationship, however I don't think I feel romantic attraction. (I would date all genders, however I prefer men.)

• While I am mainly romance favorable, I am at times romance repulsed (I don't like romance at all. Like I will sit here and say romance is dumb)

• I don't really feel like dating or getting married is important to me. Yes, I would like it. However, I don't think it is important.

Sexuality Bulletpoints:

• I feel the same way about having a sexual relationship. Yes, I would like to. However, I don't think it is important.

• I would be okay with being in a sexual relationship to pleasure my partner (doesn't necessarily has to be a partner, it can be a close friend or something, if that makes sense)/myself.

• I tend to get uncomfortable with sexual in nature acts if I am not aware that they'd be done/shown (like if someone grabs my thigh or if I'm watching a movie and they show an 18+ scene).

• I don't think I necessarily feel sexual attraction. However, I desire to be in a sexual relationship. I would be in a sexual relationship with any gender, I just also prefer men here.

• I feel like I sort of lost sexual attraction as a result of sexual trauma (sexual abuse and sexual harassment).

• I can at times be sex favorable but then I can also be sex repulsed (I think it's mainly because of trauma.)

Hopefully this post made sense and whoever reads it can comprehend what I am saying! ^^" I feel like I am somewhere on the aromantic and asexual spectrum, however I just don't know what term I should use since multiple terms from both spectrums fit me (from how I can understand them, at least).

Hello!! I need help with my sexuality. I say I’m ace, only because, I’m kinda scared to do the deed. Because I’m scared to give birth. And this is because of a blood disorder. My whole life I’ve been told I can’t give birth or I’ll D¡3. I am fine with that. Like, not giving birth. However, just now they are changing the story. And well, I have a lil bit of seggsual attraction but, it’s not to like my crushes?— it’s more of like— intrusive thoughts? Anyone know what this is?

So i think this on the asexual spectrum, but im unsure. so sometimes i am hypersexual and i feel sexual attraction, but then sometimes i feel very sex repulsed and feel no sexual attraction and mentions of sex makes me feel extremely uncomfortable, but i have no idea what i am. thanks for reading!

What are all the identities of aro/ace/aroace that are:

•Repulsed

•Indifferent

• Favorable

•Amblivant

•Oscillating

•Any others (define group please)

Reasons why:

Cause I need to know. Have a nice day/night! (HAND/N!)

Im confused with where i am on the asexual spectrum:

Basically im an asexual who gets disgusted by sexual things

Does anybody know which microlabels i should use?

All sexaultys and gender's are valid .Only you can determine who you are.

Hello, call me Flutter, London or Lex. Gho/Ghost They/them. Neptunic, aromantic acespike.(I think)

So I want to have sex in the future, and feel aroused sometimes. But I’ve never felt like I wanted to have sex with any person I’ve interacted with, I don’t know if I just have high standards or am acespec. I think I’m on the asexual spectrum but maybe not

Hi I’m from a system named Systeroamia!

I’m wondering if there is a term where you feel that there’s no sexual attraction at all, and even more so that the whole concept of sexuality/sexual attraction isn’t affective or doesn’t apply? I’m asking for a friend who is questioning his sexuality /genq

• Berserk (any pronouns)

So I'm ace

And i've seen a few gay/lesbian "thirst traps"

What are they supposed to do?????

I don't "get" it

I feel like i relate to both definitions a bit, but litho leaning.

So I feel attraction sometimes, (or at least in theory) and it changes a ton.

Hello everyone, I’m new here and I wanted ask you on one question. Before like month I started questioning my sexuality and I found out I’m on asexual spectrum. I found out I’m maybe greysexual but it still doesn’t feel right to me so I want your help.

I don’t feel sexual attraction always. Sometimes I feel, sometimes I lose it. The problem is I lose it to some specific people. To some I feel it, to some I absolutely lose it and never feel it again, and to some I feel it from time to time. Everything in the same time. I don’t know if it’s like aceflux or something like that so I wanted to ask. Thanks you :3

Hello! I'm on the lgbtqia.wikia but I've never been on this one before.

I've been questioning my sexuality recently. I currently identify as asexual but lately I've been wondering if I'm some type of demisexual/romantic or something similar. This could have nothing to do with sexuality though, I don't know.

I can find people attractive, but it's always in a "wow, that person looks really cool, I love their hair/outfit/style/etc." way and not a "I want to be with that person" way. I didn't even know that people could look at someone and want to be with them or have s3x with them because that just sounds so strange to me.

If I find someone physically/aesthetically attractive can change as I get to know them, too. If I meet someone who I think is really attractive but they do or say something or I just talk to them and realize I don't like their personality, they become instantly either not attractive at all or just barely. But the same is true for the opposite, if I don't really think someone looks particularly attractive but then I get to know them and they're a great person, they become much more attractive in my eyes. I was talking to a friend of mine and I mentioned this, and he said something like "Oh, really? That's cool. I'll still find someone hot even if they're an as$hole and I could be really close to someone like my best friend or something and still think they're ugly". This is all platonic too, I'll platonically find them more attractive, I still have no desire to be with them from this.

I don't know if this is a sexuality thing or just a thing, but yeah. This might be a question I should ask on a different wiki, I'm not sure, but what do you guys think? Does it mean something or does it have nothing to do with it?

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